Dating fear after divorce
Although you probably shouldn’t restrict your search to other infidelity survivors – you may be eliminating a potential perfect partner that way – they may understand and sympathize with your trust issues better than someone who has never experienced betrayal first-hand.
The good news is that most infidelity survivors eventually find love again, and these tips should help you in your search.
They explain that a change in mindset is essential for women over 60 who want to find romance.
In my recent interview with dating coach, David Wygant, he suggested that men are often the ones who lack confidence and suffer from fear of rejection.
His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking – women must not be afraid to make the first move!
So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?
For example, three simple ideas for creating dating opportunities include smiling genuinely, approaching men first and learning the art of flirting.
Let single girlfriends know that you are actively looking for a relationship – maybe they know someone who is perfect for you!
Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).
There should be no expectations when meeting new people. You can join groups for everything you can possibly imagine including hiking, art, photography, travel or dining out.
If you love sports, buy a ticket to an event that you love. They also have events for men and women our age and can be a great opportunity to meet new people, whether you are looking for love or not.