Dating the timing is not right Adultchatsite
Sometimes we meet the right person at the wrong time. The reason that there is such a thing as the right person, wrong time, is that there are people who are cut from the same mold.We do what we do,we are who we are, and then we learn from our mistakes and move on. But if you aren’t on the same track, the same time frame, or generally in the same emotionally mature place in life, then no matter how compatible you are, it isn’t meant to be.And so it isn’t the right relationship at the right time. There is the right person, and then there is the wrong time.That doesn’t mean that you won’t ever end up together, it just might mean that the person you have in your life right now is not what – or who – you need at this time.If you want a relationship to last, the right person is someone who you have things in common with, you can talk to about anything, and you have fun together.The right person is someone you want to share sunsets with, whether it is in Kilimanjaro or on the deck of your back porch. The right person for you is not someone who tells you what you want to hear, they are someone who tells you what you need to hear.
That doesn’t mean that they sacrifice for you, it just means that your happiness is right up there with theirs. The right person is someone who will defend you to the death, or at least to their own uncomfortableness.That can make the right person look like the wrong one when your life is ready to begin. If you are in a place in life where you know that you can’t even take care of yourself or your own issues, that may not be the time to take on someone you love and start a future – no matter how perfect they are for you.If you can’t get your own shit together, having the distraction of someone you love won’t make it any better.The perfectly matched pair, and you feel lucky that it made its way home.#2 They care more about you then they do about themselves.