Examples of good first messages for online dating

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If you read my online dating guide you’ll know that my first 6 months or so I had very little success.

However, during this “bad” phase of my dating life e Harmony was the service where I was having some success (even if limited).

With this type of profile, I always felt like simply asking them out on safe date in the first email is fine.

There’s not too much to work with here aside from asking travel questions which, by looking at her profile, probably already happens in every email she receives. I know this looks like nothing but I’ve had success with these types of emails (my wife being the best example…although her profile was actually good!

So better to listen to your gut and break any “rules” (such as keeping the email short) when you think it would work to your favor.

If you continue to struggle writing your first emails or struggle with getting responses with a service like this, trying a service like e Harmony might be helpful. e Harmony operates in a different way where they control much of the early communication for you.

I have discussed the features of this service a lot on my site so I don’t want to cover all of that again here but I will point out that: , while I met my wife using I felt that it was e Harmony that really helped me become more comfortable with online dating.

): Response 3: For all these examples, I’ve intentionally chosen profiles that were very short to keep the examples to a reasonable size.

Most profiles should have much more information for you to work with but you can apply the exact same ideas: Also, regardless what any book or person tells you (including this guy), you need to be making decisions for yourself.

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